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How Do You Defuse Conflict in a Relationship?

One night Kristen and I got into an argument while we were in the early stages of dating. Like an amateur, I left the room. But I came back. I threw the book Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs in front of her and triumphantly said, “You need to read this!” Then I marched back […]

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Getting Real: The Beginning Of Manhood

Editor’s Note: GORDON DALBEY is the author of Healing the Masculine Soul and Sons of the Father: Healing The Father-Wound in Men Today. He lives in Santa Barbara, CA , and may be reached at He’s the father of the faith-based men’s movement. His books have greatly impacted my life, and this past November, our LA men’s group was privileged to have him […]

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5 Things The Authentic Man Knows

  “A real man is a man who is real.” Gordon Dalbey The authentic man defines the true modern man. There are 5 things the authentic man knows, but I didn’t know any of them when I was younger. I remember being in high school, believing I had to wear the right clothes, be good […]

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Are You A Man By Today’s Standards?

It’s tough to be a guy today. Are you acting too weak or being too aggressive? When do you earn the distinction of being called a “man”? Is there a rite of passage into manhood? Who are the role models that exemplify what being a man is? Are you a man by today’s standards? The world seems to […]

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How Absent Fathers May Be Contributing To ISIS Recruitment

It’s about connection. If you look at the logo on our site, it’s a bow tie representing two triangles connecting; one triangle representing the whole man strong in mind, body, and soul. The second triangle represents our connection with the Creator. It’s why I feature articles on spirituality here and there. Ultimately, though, it’s about […]

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Why Nice Guys Cheat

I wrote this because I’ve been hearing all of these stories about guys cheating….even nice ones. Why does the nice guy cheat? I also go into how you can prepare yourself for commitment now.

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