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So you want to be great?

“The price of greatness is responsibility.”  Winston Churchill You were created to do great things.  Do you still dream?  Do you still have hope?  In the movie The Lion King, young Simba sings, “I Just Can’t Wait To Be King.”  There’s always an enemy waiting to send you fleeing in the other direction.  Maybe your dreams […]

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Is Chivalry Dead? Part 1: The History

“Chivalry” conjures up an image of a man in a top hat from the 1800’s laying his coat over a puddle so his lady won’t have to get her shoes wet. The French origin of the term chivalry means “horsemanship,”[1] so you could theoretically say chivalry is a form of horse riding during the Middle […]

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Start With Yourself

For a few summers, my vacations were spent sailing through the Caribbean.  During that time, I discovered parallels between sailing and life.  While in a storm, a sailboat must sail directly into the waves.  If the sailboat moves parallel to the waves, it will be overturned. The first step towards being a good guy is […]

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Single Guy Going to a Wedding? 3 Must Knows

A few years ago, a friend asked me to be a groomsman in his wedding.  The ceremony was in Colorado, and I decided to maximize my trip out there.  I convinced one of my friends to go on a white water rafting trip.  It was a great idea.  Maybe not on the day of a wedding.  Technically, we should’ve been good […]

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6 Reasons Why The Good Guy Wins The Girl

Remember when the Christian Bale Batman franchise came to theaters? Many stories and blogs stated Superman had become irrelevant. He was un-relatable and too perfect. Audiences preferred the angst, the unresolved torture, and the heaviness of  The Dark Knight. Both of these superheroes are good. But, a major difference exists between their everyday counterparts. Clark […]

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10 Ways to Win a Girl’s Heart

How the average guy can get the beauty queen Disclaimer: This is not intended for the guy who wants a one-night stand. There are books like “The Game” and “The Players Handbook” which can give you great techniques to hook up and end up with an empty life and a roster of regrets. If you […]

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