Last week, a reader wrote to me about how he is trying to be a good guy, but his reputation won’t let him. This article is about reconstructing a bad reputation into a good one.
So, what do a conservative Christian and a porn star have in common? I was really surprised, but quite a bit. A guy at the gym found out she works in porn and he was shocked. He later found out that I’m a Christian and was equally shocked. He said, “How are the two of you friends?”
I wore cool clothes, had a 6-pack, and was golden-brown. Why the freak was I not popular?…There was a big element missing from the equation, and that element easily overrode and today overrides everything else.
The consensus among the females I know is: girls want a man with a plan. Ask yourself these 3 questions to see if you are him.
At one point when I was discussing a girl I was pursuing, a pastor told me, “You’re aiming for a Bugatti, but you’re a Toyota.” Never let anyone tell you that you are less than what you are. Luckily, I had great friends around me who convinced me I am a Bugatti. I want to influence you as good guys to aim high, and I hope my testimony will lead you to never settling for anything less in your life.
Note from the Editor: Because of his profession in the public eye, my good friend has chosen to write this anonymously. However, the insight in this article is incredible, and something all men can learn from. Enjoy. There are so many blogs and articles out there geared toward girls and women on praying for their […]
The good guy can often feel awkwardly caught in between the two extremes of meeting a good girl at a bar/club or an online dating service. While I know a few friends who have had success in both arenas, the typical good guy ideally would like to meet the girl of his dreams in his habitat. […]
Back in the 1800’s, fraternal organizations were started with the aim of making men better men. The fact is, good guys are contagious. Get a group of good men together, and they will change their school, their campus, and the world. Every man is a work in progress, but here are 30 characteristics of a good […]
I would’ve been on time, but I got caught in traffic. My parents weren’t supportive, so I didn’t follow my dreams. I’m always there for everyone else, but no one’s there for me. He has the resources to make it because his family is rich. I could never be that ripped. I don’t have the […]
A few years ago, a friend asked me to be a groomsman in his wedding. The ceremony was in Colorado, and I decided to maximize my trip out there. I convinced one of my friends to go on a white water rafting trip. It was a great idea. Maybe not on the day of a wedding. Technically, we should’ve been good […]