self·less ˈselfləs adjective “1. concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one’s own; unselfish.” Be a great man, and then you’ll be a great partner. Don’t fall for the lie that a woman will complete you and make you happy. Don’t believe the myth that your struggles and addictions will end […]
When you’re painfully honest, you can admit life is unfair. If you’re a good guy, refusing to act like a douchebag to get your way, life can seem even more unfair than it needs to be. Perhaps the girl you know you’re perfect for decides you’re not so right for her, or maybe you were […]
Editor’s note: I can’t believe what an international response has come from the site. Super humbling. Kedric Kwan, who hails from Malaysia, contributed this great article on the meaning of strength. Strength is no do doubt an advantage. Being strong enables us to lift heavy weights in the gym, move our own furniture and help […]
Ever get that feeling you’re alone? You’re not. “You’re alone” is the biggest lie guys believe. We don’t like to admit we need help. In fact, men are half as likely to seek counseling services as women according to Counseling Today. Have something you’re struggling with? Here are 15 surprising statistics about guys. You’ve […]
Do you want to become a better man? After re-reading Robert Glover’s No More Mr. Nice Guy, I’m inspired to remedy the Nice Guy Syndrome and start the journey to become a better man (the Good Guy). I started the list, but got some help from my men’s group here in Los Angeles. I hope this inspires you […]
Ever heard the saying, “when the going gets tough, the tough get going”? Of course you have; it’s one of the trite statements of the 21st century. However, when I get in one of those ruts where I’m complaining about everything, I have to ask myself, “Am I living it out?” Do I quit when […]
The Secret Life of Walter Mitty…Regardless of how he is portrayed in the film, the short story by James Thurber describes a man you don’t want to be.
Disappointment isn’t that bad. I think sometimes we let the fear of it keep us from enjoying what God has blessed us with presently in our lives. It can keep us from investing 100% in our passions. It can keep us from taking the risks that every whippersnapper can afford to take early in life. The […]
Guys buy into a lie as fictional as Hercules myth. It’s the lie that a girl will somehow make your life perfect. That lie will lead to your ruin. You’ve seen friends who’ve bought into it, and you know who they are.
A true good guy goes through his day recognizing his blessings in life and shows kindness to strangers. He takes time out of his day to notice the beauty in the simple and mundane. He loses two seconds out of his own day to help a woman with a stroller go down a flight of stairs. He asks the cashier, “How is your day?” with a smile. He acknowledges the janitor at work with a friendly, “Hello.”