The consensus among the females I know is: girls want a man with a plan. Ask yourself these 3 questions to see if you are him.
At one point when I was discussing a girl I was pursuing, a pastor told me, “You’re aiming for a Bugatti, but you’re a Toyota.” Never let anyone tell you that you are less than what you are. Luckily, I had great friends around me who convinced me I am a Bugatti. I want to influence you as good guys to aim high, and I hope my testimony will lead you to never settling for anything less in your life.
Note from the Editor: Because of his profession in the public eye, my good friend has chosen to write this anonymously. However, the insight in this article is incredible, and something all men can learn from. Enjoy. There are so many blogs and articles out there geared toward girls and women on praying for their […]
After nearly two years of being in an amazing relationship, the dream suddenly ended. What was supposed to become a wedding, became nothing. A variety of circumstances, mistakes, and challenges led to a big heartache as our love story disappeared. How could I recover from a break up? I hope we can still be friends. […]
The good guy can often feel awkwardly caught in between the two extremes of meeting a good girl at a bar/club or an online dating service. While I know a few friends who have had success in both arenas, the typical good guy ideally would like to meet the girl of his dreams in his habitat. […]
For too many years, I settled for less. I lost hope. I was in my 30’s and single. I spoke negative thoughts into my life like: You’re not good enough….You’re not man enough. What girl would want to be with you? What do you have to offer? You’re too old…Your time has passed. I […]
“Love was as marked a feature in the chivalric character as valour; and in the phrase of the time, he who understood how to break a lance, and did not understand how to win a lady, was but a half a man.” Charles Mills, The History of Chivalry, or Knighthood and its Times (1825) Knights […]
I spent so much time putting this video together for the wedding, I wanted to share the experience. I’ve been blessed with the most amazing friends while I’ve lived in this huge city. When I knew it was time to propose to Kristen, I enlisted the help of two of my friends (Ruel and Harlan). […]
Back in the late 80’s Nintendo released a video game called Super Mario Brothers. Mario or Luigi fight to rescue Princess Peach, or Princess Toadstool if you’re old school. A 15th Century knight by the name of Sir Thomas Malory would say this is the heart of chivalry: “The very purpose of a knight is to […]
“Chivalry” conjures up an image of a man in a top hat from the 1800’s laying his coat over a puddle so his lady won’t have to get her shoes wet. The French origin of the term chivalry means “horsemanship,” so you could theoretically say chivalry is a form of horse riding during the Middle […]