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10 Proverbs Of The Mysterious Man Every Girl Wants

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Every guy knows women love a man of mystery.

Because a mystery man is mysterious, we don’t have a clue about what it takes to be that man.

So, we try our best act.

We do a little research and come across pick up artist communities and sites on how to be an alpha male.

When it comes down to it, you can be an incredibly good looking guy, with a luxury car, and an incredible house, and still fall flat on your face when it comes to dating. You can put on an act, and see some short-term progress, but eventually every man has to face the truth about himself, and she’ll be there to see it. Will she stay?

The truth is, the mysterious man isn’t so mysterious. Whether he consciously understands it or not, he follows simple guidelines that have been set in stone from ancient times.

How can you be the mysterious man every girl wants?

10 Proverbs Of The Mysterious Man Every Girl Wants

1. A Mysterious Man Listens

There’s no mystery here. A man who spends more time listening, and less time talking is going to come across as mysterious. A woman wants a man who is present and concerned about the words that come from her heart. If you spend 75% of the first date doing the talking, she’ll know enough about you to not need a second date.

2. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Brag

In LA, everyone is quick to tell you what they do, who they know, where they’ve been, etc. When I went to DC last week, I had to pry that information out of people, and for the most part, they were all doing big things. A showman, or a man who brags and is showy, is not mysterious. You want to be a mysterious man? Let others brag for you. Instead of showing off, let others tell her of your feats.

3. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Put Women On A Pedestal

When men treat women like they are a prize or a trophy, they are conveying that women are simply a means to an end.

What happens when he finally wins?  

Usually he moves on to the next competition. A woman wants to be seen for her beauty within. And when he finds it, she’s hoping it’s a beauty worthy of being protected, and a beauty worth dying for. Why else are women attracted to men in uniform? Policeman, fire fighters, military men are generally most willing to go to great lengths to protect, even if it includes giving up their own lives. 

Men in uniform

4. A Mysterious Man Controls His Emotions

There’s no mystery in a man who wears emotion on his sleeve. He’s like a city with no walls, meaning he has no strength, structure, or greatness yet to be seen. But a man who controls his emotions comes across as mysterious. It shows he can be steady when times are unsteady. It shows he can be a rock whenever she’s feeling emotional.

5. A Mysterious Man Holds His Alcohol

Alcohol is like a truth serum. Drinking too much can make you comfortable enough to share anything or do anything, and that takes away mystery. A man of temperance is mysterious. He knows his alcohol limit, and doesn’t go too overboard, lest he loses respect towards him.

6. A Mysterious Man Can Keep It In His Pants

What mystery is there in anyone who gives in too soon? Waiting creates tension, and will let you measure the chemistry. It will keep her coming back for more, and can improve relationship outcomes.

7. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Gossip

There is no mystery in a guy who gossips. Gossiping reveals more about a man’s own character than what he’s trying to reveal about someone else’s.

8. A Mysterious Man Is Confident

Women are attracted to a confident man because it implies stability and sustainability.

A confident man can endure the critics and any storm life may throw at him. When a man doubts himself, it can be seen by everyone in the room.

When a woman finds a man with true confidence, she knows she’s found a man who is committed to her for life.

9. A Mysterious Man Spends Some Time Alone

Some men are incapable of spending any time alone, but a mysterious man gains strength in silence and rest. He sits in prayer and contemplation, and leaves these moments with wisdom and answers. It’s here that he learns the way of mystery. He understands fighting can be done in stillness.

10. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Call Her 5 Times A Day

The mysterious man never comes across as desperate. He doesn’t have to strive to achieve success. Everything he attains comes from his strong identity, and he is willing to wait it. There’s no mystery in the rat race.

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14 Responses to 10 Proverbs Of The Mysterious Man Every Girl Wants

  1. Gabe June 21, 2015 at 6:49 pm #

    A man controls his emotions, but he expresses it as well and doesn’t afraid of them right ? How to achieve this, how do you know when to be emotional or not ? I saw Joe Ehrmann’s talk about masculinity and this is really confusing for me, how to control and express it at the same time ?

    • RichardDick June 25, 2015 at 11:31 pm #

      There’s a difference between being strong and silent to the point of being cruel when you do show your feelings then there’s strong and silent but able to be a good listener, kind with words and be positive. Who would your rather be? An emotionally distant/abusive (because that’s what a lack of emotion cam be perceived by a woman) suitor or one that shows that he cares but doesn’t go all out in the feelings department?

      • Gabe July 2, 2015 at 12:01 pm #

        Good point, Thank you !

    • Kris Wolfe July 8, 2015 at 6:17 pm #

      Gabe, thanks for all of your awesome comments btw. I think the essence of a gentleman is temperance, and being thoughtful about everything. That being said, a gentleman is emotional, but he’s not the kind of guy who’s going to fly off the handle and be irrational. He’s not going to let his emotions completely dictate his actions. He has control over his emotions, but that doesn’t mean he’s emotionally distant.

      • Gabe July 8, 2015 at 6:55 pm #

        Thanks for all your replies Kris, well yeah I’ve bombed you with some questions that’s for sure 😀

  2. Chandler March 18, 2016 at 10:20 pm #

    Wow, I stumbled across this article and I am amazed. This is me! I am working on acting this way constantly and I think it is some awesome information. Thanks!

  3. Emmanuel July 21, 2016 at 11:50 pm #

    I have been trying to put some of these lessons to use because in the past I have been known to reveal too much or feel too much because I always felt it is good for someone to know the truth about me so there wouldn’t be any misunderstandings.

    I imagine some of these things come off easy for some but it might take work for others. It is tough to keep the balance just right. You can go too far and just seem disinterested or cold.

    Do you think it is possible for someone to change and start applying these tips in real life? I always thought that you are who you are and no matter how much you try to change it will never be real.

    I don’t know. I am trying to change though. I will keep on trying. Thank you for this article. It is very much appreciated.

    • Kris Wolfe July 22, 2016 at 6:52 pm #

      Manny, you are in the right place. Don’t lose sight of yourself, but keep aiming to be a better man. Everything will fall into place!

  4. Brandon March 14, 2017 at 1:42 am #

    90% of this describes me. It also explains why im usually the center of gossip, i always though everyone was just nosy.

    • Kris Wolfe March 21, 2017 at 7:07 pm #

      That’s a good sign. People want to find out what makes Brandon tick!

  5. Dave Balanghig April 12, 2017 at 4:29 pm #

    How can i be mysterious when im well known with the school and Best Friends?

    • Kris Wolfe April 13, 2017 at 5:49 pm #

      Hello Dave, I get where you’re coming from. We all carry a reputation, but this is more about how you carry yourself. I’m putting up an article on identity today, and your focus has to be on the long-term, not the hear and now.

  6. Louis July 24, 2017 at 6:41 am #

    This Is me but when I drink I blow it, and I can’t stop drinking once in a while …fml

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