Every guy knows women love a man of mystery.
Because a mystery man is mysterious, we don’t have a clue about what it takes to be that man.
So, we try our best act.
We do a little research and come across pick up artist communities and sites on how to be an alpha male.
When it comes down to it, you can be an incredibly good looking guy, with a luxury car, and an incredible house, and still fall flat on your face when it comes to dating. You can put on an act, and see some short-term progress, but eventually every man has to face the truth about himself, and she’ll be there to see it. Will she stay?
The truth is, the mysterious man isn’t so mysterious. Whether he consciously understands it or not, he follows simple guidelines that have been set in stone from ancient times.
How can you be the mysterious man every girl wants?
10 Proverbs Of The Mysterious Man Every Girl Wants
1. A Mysterious Man Listens
There’s no mystery here. A man who spends more time listening, and less time talking is going to come across as mysterious. A woman wants a man who is present and concerned about the words that come from her heart. If you spend 75% of the first date doing the talking, she’ll know enough about you to not need a second date.
2. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Brag
In LA, everyone is quick to tell you what they do, who they know, where they’ve been, etc. When I went to DC last week, I had to pry that information out of people, and for the most part, they were all doing big things. A showman, or a man who brags and is showy, is not mysterious. You want to be a mysterious man? Let others brag for you. Instead of showing off, let others tell her of your feats.
3. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Put Women On A Pedestal
When men treat women like they are a prize or a trophy, they are conveying that women are simply a means to an end.
What happens when he finally wins?
Usually he moves on to the next competition. A woman wants to be seen for her beauty within. And when he finds it, she’s hoping it’s a beauty worthy of being protected, and a beauty worth dying for. Why else are women attracted to men in uniform? Policeman, fire fighters, military men are generally most willing to go to great lengths to protect, even if it includes giving up their own lives.
4. A Mysterious Man Controls His Emotions
There’s no mystery in a man who wears emotion on his sleeve. He’s like a city with no walls, meaning he has no strength, structure, or greatness yet to be seen. But a man who controls his emotions comes across as mysterious. It shows he can be steady when times are unsteady. It shows he can be a rock whenever she’s feeling emotional.
5. A Mysterious Man Holds His Alcohol
Alcohol is like a truth serum. Drinking too much can make you comfortable enough to share anything or do anything, and that takes away mystery. A man of temperance is mysterious. He knows his alcohol limit, and doesn’t go too overboard, lest he loses respect towards him.
6. A Mysterious Man Can Keep It In His Pants
What mystery is there in anyone who gives in too soon? Waiting creates tension, and will let you measure the chemistry. It will keep her coming back for more, and can improve relationship outcomes.
7. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Gossip
There is no mystery in a guy who gossips. Gossiping reveals more about a man’s own character than what he’s trying to reveal about someone else’s.
8. A Mysterious Man Is Confident
Women are attracted to a confident man because it implies stability and sustainability.
A confident man can endure the critics and any storm life may throw at him. When a man doubts himself, it can be seen by everyone in the room.
When a woman finds a man with true confidence, she knows she’s found a man who is committed to her for life.
9. A Mysterious Man Spends Some Time Alone
Some men are incapable of spending any time alone, but a mysterious man gains strength in silence and rest. He sits in prayer and contemplation, and leaves these moments with wisdom and answers. It’s here that he learns the way of mystery. He understands fighting can be done in stillness.
10. A Mysterious Man Doesn’t Call Her 5 Times A Day
The mysterious man never comes across as desperate. He doesn’t have to strive to achieve success. Everything he attains comes from his strong identity, and he is willing to wait it. There’s no mystery in the rat race.