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6 Beliefs Keeping You In A Broken Relationship

“If I’m not happy in this dating relationship, then why am I in one?” Some years back, I was trapped in a relationship (or so I thought). She met my superficial wife list, and everyone thought we looked good together and on paper. We shared the same faith, plus she was hot and successful. That’s […]

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The Perspective of a Woman at the Gym

There’s this guy at my local gym. He struts around the equipment like a peacock and makes a big deal whenever he’s just lifted a huge weight. It’s like he wants the entire gym to know he’s benching. His loud grunts and “walk it off” stance are intended not to be missed. His frequent leers […]

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Speak Well of Her In Public and 3 Cautions

Last night we were playing the game “Mafia,” and I threw my wife under the bus. No one knows her like I do, and as I watched her, I could tell she was mafia in the first round. I “outted” her in front of everyone, and we townspeople won that game in record time. In […]

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How To Be A Good Guy By Making Mistakes

About a month ago, just after moving across the country, I took a trip to a certain Swedish furniture store to get some essentials for my apartment. I went in with a list of what I wanted, thinking I’d cruise through and get on with my day. No such luck. What was supposed to be […]

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Found in the Fog: Recovering From Depression

‘You like to tell true stories, don’t you?’ he asked, and I answered, ‘Yes, I like to tell stories that are true.’ Then he asked, ‘After you have finished your true stories sometime, why don’t you make up a story and the people to go with it? Only then will you understand what happened and […]

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5 Things The Authentic Man Knows

  “A real man is a man who is real.” Gordon Dalbey The authentic man defines the true modern man. There are 5 things the authentic man knows, but I didn’t know any of them when I was younger. I remember being in high school, believing I had to wear the right clothes, be good […]

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7 Simple Disciplines of Gentlemanship

  I have found an amazing flow and it feels like I’m being led towards the next key chapter in life. I’m meeting amazing people who help me on my journey, I gain unique experiences daily that broaden my views to life, I’m able to help others by being myself and using my core competences, […]

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Are You A Man By Today’s Standards?

It’s tough to be a guy today. Are you acting too weak or being too aggressive? When do you earn the distinction of being called a “man”? Is there a rite of passage into manhood? Who are the role models that exemplify what being a man is? Are you a man by today’s standards? The world seems to […]

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5 Ways To Flirt Like A Good Guy

Pick-up artists use a technique called negging, or a back-handed compliment, to attract women. When it’s done right, it comes across as teasing, and teasing or flirting is one of the many ways you can let a girl know you like her. There’s good teasing, and then there’s bad teasing. I should be the master […]

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